I have been in an abusive relationship with my ex boyfriend for two years. I finally left him and started talking to other men. Well the problem is that he will not leave me alone. One night I refuse to have sex with him and he keyed my car. He constantly comes to my house and begs me to be back with him. But recently he left a message on my phone talking to another woman trying to be funny. Then later that night he had the female in the car with him. But he went and parked the car someone else and walked back to my house. Trying to say that he wanted to make sure I was alright. I don’t understand this man he has done some much stuff to me in the last two years of the relationship.
What can I do to stop this with him? It’s like he is controlling my life and we not even together. I need help bad…..
Dear A,
Abusive relationships destroy one’s spirit. We lose who we are, lose who we can be and the relationship controls us.
I am proud that you physically remove yourself from that relationship; I said physically cause he stills is controlling you.
DO NOT ACCEPT HIS CALLS!!!!!
DO NOT ALLOW HIM IN YOUR HOUSE!!!!
Keying your car is childish and vandalism. Now if you like playing with boys and you have disposal income to have your car repaired. Do not complain!!
Sisterfriend, take your life back >>>>> Over is over.
If he doesn’t get it go to the police . Also, go back to the WPGC 955.com and read what I have posted on Domestic Violence.
If you are playing a game this is a very dangerous one.
Honor yourself sister.
Truly remember if no one told they love you today, I do
Always, Justine
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